roryreckons

My personal guide to advocacy

I am a rules based person. I needed to clarify these… some overlap with my social media rules.

Self-determination underlies dopamine production. When we don’t have it. We need artificial production.

I need the full picture to understand the small details… I have the opposite learning cognition compared to how we are taught most of the time.

Hyperfocus brain is not always our friend when we feed it with bad information.

The danger of behaviourism and a loss of autonomy for the pattern seeking brain.

Compassion is a logical, intuitive, or logically intuitive willingness to act with kindness toward someone else.

I have a black box brain a lot of the time, you throw random data in, it gives you a solution when doing something else. Passive problem solving.

Social pain and physical pain aren’t that different. They hurt just as much to those who feel shame.

Thankfully my life has been excruciating. It allowed me to discover this pattern. Pain allows us to truly love.

The most important thing is you love your kid and try your best – that is the best you can do.